I smoked for 10 years, and at the time I quit, I was up to two packs a day. I stopped cold turkey - no patch, no gum, no nicotine anything. I was able to quit due to a few things.
1) I had some VERY caring friends, who I thank to this day, stepped in and told me I had a problem, and needed to quit (when they see you hacking all the time.... they take notice).
2) I WANTED to quit. I put my mind to it. I didn't say I was TRYING to quit... I said "I quit".
3) Cinnimon sticks / Peppermint sticks to chew on. The peppermint was sweet, so I eventually went to chewing on cinnimon sticks. Tasted more like bark, but it gave me something to chew on, and took my mind off of inhaling cigarette smoke. I also kept a steady supply of round peppermints / butterscotch candies in my pocket all the time.
4) I got rid of every bit of smoking related equipment I owned. I threw out all ashtrays, lighters (even the nice little wind-proof ones I got with my Marlboro miles), cigarettes, cigars, Marboro banner from the living room
, etc....
5) I talked to a doctor. I read some books. I found out some very interesting things about nicotine.....
a) It takes your body almost twice the time it took you to get the nicotine into your body... to get it out. Therefore - I smoke 10 years.... it takes my body almost 20 to be fully free of it.
b) The cravings I had were scary to me. I thought "Jez... If I am "jonesing" this bad for a smoke... this stuff really is a drug. It has withdrawl symptoms. They may be all in your head, but just the fact that withdrawl symptoms exist, proves that point. It's a drug, and a powerfully addiciting one.
c) You should see the crap that came out of my lungs for the first month after I quit. Man! :blink: Disgusting! I coughed up a lot of crap for a while. I coughed worse than when I smoked. I felt much better after that part was over with.
6) If you need any proding to stay off.... consider this - 5-6 years after quiting, I was still periodicly having cravings to smoke. If I was hanging out with a smoker, at a bar or party, etc.... I even had dreams every once in a while that I had started up again. Now that's some addictive stuff.
I never pass judgement on anyone smoking, unless they are doing it in a no-smoking zone, or smoking near my son (and I'll remove us from that situation before saying something to them). I know it's tough to quit, and I wish you all the best in succeeding.
All the best,
Glenn