Ran my boat in HEAVY wind last month. Really a learning experience. What I learned.
First of all, going like a bat out of hell is not the way to go. See Rob's note. I found that making headway at about 25-30 mph gave me the best control; minimized the wet ride (to some degree); and didn't have too many hard landings. I'll wholeheartedly agree with the 'two hands on the wheel' and the hot foot. It's great.
Running 'into' the waves will likely get you wetter. What I found, is that I either wanted to be going with the waves, or going against them. I didn't like the handling/behavior when going at a diagonal at all. However, you don't always get that choice.
If the boat starts to get uncontrollable, then shut it down, bring it under steerage control, make directional corrections, and then get underway again. Most of all, when getting going again, get it up quickly - if at all possible.
In a real heavy see, be very careful of large displacement boats (like the big 25-30 foot cruisers), making 25-30 in teh slop. They create HUGE wakes that you won't readily see in time. If you need to cross their wake, slow down to 'steerage speed' and go through it slowly.
Last but not least. If it's real heavy water/wind, put on your rain suit.
I'd tell you about running near hills/mountains, but you live in Oklahoma. Kinda like Texas, not much wind relief.
Tex