Thoughts and prayers are with you. As I mentioned in a previous post, my wife has been through her treatment. I'm not usually too sappy, but I remember going to the hospital prior to her treatments and just sitting in the parking lot crying, and praying that all would come out OK for her- and us. I'm not saying it is easy, it is not. But there is hope. We live in a day and time that allows hope, to be treated, and to be given a chance. It is not perfect, but we at least have treatments avilable. Go with her to some of her treatments, even if it is radiation only that they prescribe. She'll appreciate it more later than now. When she was getting her treatments and office visits, there were a lot of women especially, whose spouses wanted no part of the process, either scared or worthless, or both. My wife soon will pass 11 yrs clear, and we can make light of it now. The best of luck to you, I understand how everyone is affected in your family by this.