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Thought I would share a story with you. A little long, but worth the read.



I joined a local bass club this year, so that I could meet some local anglers, fish more, and gain some new friends. The club is made up mostly of a bunch of SC Good-Ol-Boys. Some have been in the club for many, many years. Several of these Good-Ol-Boys have been very nice, shared information, and also been encouraging. Specially when I wasn't doing too well.



One of them, Tom Wolfe, has always been very good and interested in the club, our committment to 'Kids', and the community in general. He fishes near the top of the standings almost every month, and again this year qualified for the SC Federation 6 Man Team from our club. Tom is retired, and lives near the lake. Fishes probably 2-3 times a week.



Last night, he couldn't attend the entire meeting, but at least wanted to come by and make his presence known. Wanted to 'meet and greet' those of us that tend to arrive early and congregate outside for our usual BS session. Tom's wife brought him last night.



As is his usual tact, Tom doesn't promote 'himself' too much, but certainly gets into the give-n-take that usually goes on. As I walked up to his car last night, the first thing that he did was call out to me and congratulate me on my first 'limit' last month, and ask how I was doing. It was obvious, he was in pretty good spirits, being around the group last night. He wanted to make sure and let us know that he would be fishing this weekend, come hell or high water.



You see, about three weeks ago, the doctor's delivered the bad news, and Tom subsequently had his right leg amputated. Right now he is using a walker and/or a wheel chair during his rehab.



He won't be 'piloting' his boat this weekend, but going to make every attempt to fish from it with one of his close friends in the club doing the driving. If he can't go, then his son will attend as a guest. The third option, is that we'll change out the boating assignments, and Tom will join me in my Targa. Deep sides would provide good safety and maximum maneuverability. If I'm so lucky to be able to host him as the non-boater, I will be very fortunate.



We all face different challenges within our lifetime. We are measured, in some regards, by how we face those adversities. Tom serves as a great example of how to challenge things in a positive way.



I'd appreciate it if you would include Tom in your thoughts and prayers for a solid recovery, and a fast adaptation of his therapy, and eventual fitting of his prosthesis down the road.



Tex



 
Point of clairty. Above I mention 'if he can't go'. That's Tom's friend - not Tom himself. He is absoultely committed to fishing this weekend.
 
"I wept for I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet." -- Chinese Proverb



Thanks for that story, and know that my thoughts are with your friend.
 
When a man is truly passionate about something, there are no problems, only solutions! Hats off to Tom, he doesn't accept "handicaps" only unique challenges. I had an unlce confined to a wheelchair that recently passed. He was much the same way. Wouldn't let it stop him. Every time I visited, he was anxious to show me his new pistols or rifles. We would swap hunting stories. He hunted from the car as is legal in NY for those in wheelchairs. He was truly a hunter. Tex, if you get to take him, you will learn a lot more than some fishing tips! Send him our regards! And don't pitty him, he obviously doesn't! Look him in the eye like you would any other man, because he is just that, a devoted angler like you or I.
 
TT -



My heart and prayers go out to Tom.....



I'm 52 and have been a diabetic since I was 10..... Among other side effects, loss of circulation and nerve sensation in the extremities is one of the more common. I guess that Tom, too, is a diabetic..... I haven't gotten near to the stage that Tom is, but I do have significantly decreased circulation and almost no feeling in my toes. It is a constant reminder of what is inevitably to come..... Kym (the lady who outfished me using a bobber) and I were talking the other night. I was trying to explain to her my love of life but also the fear of what was to come. I tried to explain the "do not resuscitate" order I had signed. I tried to explain how someday my time might well come to say "enough"..... I also tried to explain my deeepest desire to "hold on" by saying that, even if I had to do it from a wheelchair, I could still go fishin'.....



"Thank you" also, TT, for being so good a person.....



me!
 
John - I know from our personal discussions about Tom. First thank you for sharing with the gang this story of heartache and determination. Second I am glad that joining the bass club has not only provided a renued vigor for you and Judy to fish, but also to meet the wonderful people you have!



We all will hope and pray that Tom continues down that road, and that you and others help him along the way!
 
Thanks John. It is amazing how a story like this can put things into perspective.

Prayers for Tom!

T
 
Scott,



No, actually it wasn't diabeties. He had a bypass last year (I believe), where they took some veins from his legs. This caused some problems, and I believe uncovered some basic circulatory problems that he had. Afterwards, his leg continued to cause problems, that finally had to be addressed.



Sounds like you have been addressing your own situation for quite some time. Hope everything continues to be positive for you. Found out last year that my younger brother (about 43-44 years old) has been diagnosed with diabeties. I need to go get a good checkup myself.



Only my best thoughts and prayers for your continued good health. Life is precious, and should be lived to the fullest.



Tex
 
Thats an amazing story! God Bless! Nothing can stop a true fisherman.



 
You have to love folks like that. The glass is always between half-full and full. The guy is obviously cut from good stuff. Thanks for sharing the story, Tex.
 
You know almost everybody knows somebody that always has a bigger view of life. Mine is a friend of mine named Charlie Mason. He is so full of life and BS that if you don't know him or his story you might find him rude because he says what he feels and pulls no punches. He is in his fifties now boats and fishes every day he can. I converted aTM for him from a pedal style to a tiller and he loves it. He has had this boat for about 5 years and could not use the TM because he has two artifical legs and with only 1 arm he had no way to fish and troll. He never complained about it but 1 day the TM got in his way and ask me to remove it. Remember I work on cars not boats. But I agreed. That night I had a thought? (and it hurt) I had an old tiller type in the shed and if I could take the 2 and make 1 good one Charlie might use it. Use it he does everybody he takes fishing has to here the story how I made a TM just for him.

God Bless them all.

BF
 
TT



Thanks for reminding us that life is not just fins and fiberglass.



Our prayers are with Tom.



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